Many things can contribute to our not approving our dreams are not feeling good enough lot of things can contribute to that many of us never live up to our potential or don't prove ourselves because we never had anybody to believe it.
Looking at some of the things that keep us from approving ourselves that we've all done some things, we don't feel good about things that if we have to do those things over again we would not do those things. We would do things differently so part of what we must do in order to begin to move into your greatness.
You got to remove a major energy block and that is dealing with the issue of forgiveness people that have hurt you someone who's done you wrong. Make a list and things that you have done. That you, you feel bad about that. You regret to make a list there may be a time when you weren't a good father, a good mother, a good brother, a sister, you. You were a bad shallow. You didn't do a good job for you lied or you were just honest are you stolen. No one knows this what you or something you feels well about to you.
now is a real dog in me to do that something you just really regret that we make a list of all those things all of us have some of that myself there's some good in the worst of us and some bad in the best of us. so not about the skate .now here's something I want you to do. I want you to become involved in an active process to get some clutter out of your life. So if there's any area in your life that you need to clean up there are some people who are cluttering up your life. they serve no purpose whatsoever they're just holding an occupying the space that somebody useful positive nurturing and contributing could be holding that space you don't even have time to look to see what else is out there because you all have all of these people surrounding you that's not enabling you to grow.
so look at what is it I need to get out of my life just start cleaning this stuff out see whatever you have in your environment is a reflection of your consciousness so you got all that chaos that represents some disorganized credit section of your mind. let's get all this out of there all right work to get that out clean that up anybody that you feel very strongly about have some negative feelings about let's look at some good reasons to forgive them
Number one: you must try and see what has happened or see things from that other person's point of view. let's look at it from their point of view that's. That’s one area. That’s number one.
Number two: holding a grudge hurts you doesn't hurt them so just what good health and peace of mind. let it go any feeling of resentment or anger or hatred is called to me a load of bitterness within every thought that we entertain produces a chemical in our brain that impacts the body's immune system and besides this person, you're hating it probably are not even aware of it.
don't even know you're really hating them you turned up the steam gone from this like to hate intense eight and here you are killing yourself making yourself vulnerable to various types of illnesses putting himself in bad health and I say that person is not worth your sacrifice in your health or one minute of peace of mind one minute of anger robs you of 60 seconds of happiness so decide it doesn't matter. let it go and experience the dignity and the magnanimous sense of character I'm being big enough to move on and get on with your life letting it go so you can grow to see with all of us have greatness within us but when you don't come to grips with your greatness and you don't work to develop it if you're not seeking it out ,if you're not finally where it is, if you're not trying to locate if you're not experimenting with your life to try and find out what spots for you.
I'm saying that you’re positioning yourself to be a miserable person and unfulfilled person. How’s do we do it procrastination .we just put things off over and over and over again why because we haven't accepted it. We don't feel deserving we don't feel that we have well enough so we sabotage ourselves by not ever taking care of business. We get real busy doing a lot of things but we don't have any time we start doing so many things. We just give out time away until we don't have any time for ourselves or anytime to do the things that we want to do and every time you put it off and move it back or I'll do it one day all you. I’m going to get to it.
I'm saying to you and one day you look around and there goes a year there goes two years there goes three years so there's something you want to do it now, do it right now, don't put it all start right now where you are there will never be a perfect ideal time whatever you have going for you right now that's enough work on that idea work on it. work on it, work on it, watch out with the relationships you have what kind of person are you becoming because of the relationship that you have right now done those people contribute to you that they help you grow and develop yourself.
what kind of person are you becoming people who have not accept greatness for themselves these people don't study ladies and gentlemen these people don't study they don't have time for personal growth and development don't have time to work on their minds no they don't have time for that too
busy for that to determine the height of yourself approval it's important that you evaluate yourself because you know you quite well but it's almost impossible to do it totally by yourself you must get some caring theme find somebody close enough to you that has observed you of it around you that you value their opinion and ask them. How do they see you? How do they rate you in terms of your self-esteem and then compare what you have with? What they say see their things many times that people can see in us and we can't see because it's a blind spot.
When someone pays you a compliment, can you handle it well .can you handle compliment slow that's a good barometer about your self-esteem? Can you handle criticism well? Can you give criticism what are your expectations? What do you expect to get from life? What do you expect to get from your business? what do you expect to get from your relationship .what is your ideal day what is it that you expect from this experience this trip this journey that you're involved in people that have a strong sense of self-approval . They have high expectations for themselves and from life and from others set on a lot of people don't expect much from life so they don't shoot for much. They’re not preparing for much a lot of people just showing up in life.
A lot of people just get up in the morning and they go through the day. They go to the job just to put a check down watching the clock coming here so you want to be a different kind of person that you followed your life. you want to get something out of this if you're gonna do it is worth your time your energy you've got some expectations from this. so examine your expectations versus your wishes for some people wish they could do better some people expect to do that were you on that and love yourself make caring for you the highest priority in your life take care of you look out for what truly satisfied you .
we're not talking to love ourselves we're not talking to look out for ourselves .we're not talk to take care of ourselves to become sensitive to our wants to our needs are our desires. So make a conscious up and make your number one priority your peace of mind your health is more important than your family any and everybody because if you don't have peace of mind if you don't have your help. You can't serve anybody don't neglect you. a lot of us and particularly ladies have been groomed to be sacrificial lambs putting their dreams on the back burner and deference to their children's dreams of her husband's dreams for their families dreams and forget about themselves and become resentful and angry and bitter so start taking care of yourself looking out for you developer health plan your help is all you got so start taking care of your eating nutritious meals willing to exercise your body taking care of his body loving yourself so do some good stuff for yourself on purpose take some time out for you.
you can't develop and manifest your greatness you can be a high achiever if you don't feel good. you don't take care of yourself it takes the edge of your life .it helps you to manage things rather than allowing them to manage you gives you more personal power to deal with stuff take care of you now here's something else I suggest for you become aware of what your needs are and develop compassion toward yourself despite your human and effects develop compassion for yourself despite your human defects .you will never be perfect hello you will never be perfect you're human you've made a lot of mistakes .you've done a lot of dumb stupid things guess what you're not through yet got to learn to be gentle with yourself make it all right.
What you don't know mistakes that you made. it's okay handle it learned from the experience. decide that you are going to whatever you become involved in to be up front to be true to yourself .are you getting what you need out of it and be up front with people and tell them. what you need from them don't assume that they know don't say I thought you knew now tell people up front here's what I need from this in order for this to work for me to be up front with your stuff tell him up front so they're not surprised later on so your feelings on heard later on see if they tell you front they can't do it now you know you can keep on stepping but tell people up front here's what I want not of me to play this game with you. we're going to dance that's what I got to get out of it if you don't take care of your needs guess what you will always have that nagging song in the back.
you might say when do I get my own. see where to talk to be quiet and not speak up for ourselves not to be selfish, if you don't take care of you all things going to take care of you who's gonna look out for you that of the new will. oh, i was gonna do that you got a business no one's going to take care of your business better than you nobody about anything you want to do in life you've got to take on a ship up and say hey I'm gonna make this happen. Be willing to venture out and do something that you have fantasized about doing and you know you probably won't be good at it but do it anyhow.
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